Hanging on the Telephone

The husband and I just spent a few days at his parents’ house. One of the things that always amazes me when I’m there is just how often their phone rings - at least 20 times a day. I can't imagine having that many conversations, mostly with different people, every day. Somewhere along the way, I have become a phone-phobe. I don’t know why. When I was in high school, other than family-enforced breaks for meals, I would pretty much spend all of my non-school waking hours on the phone with my best friend. Stephanie went to the same school as I did. We would see each other at lunchtime and in several classes. Somehow, though, it didn’t seem at all weird to spend nearly every waking minute with a phone attached to my ear, listening to her breathe as we watched Friends or The Real World or whatever godforsaken form of entertainment appealed to us at that moment.

Then we went to college and I spent a year or two working for my university’s survey research center. I would call up randomly generated phone numbers, and ask questions designed by various government, academic, and other non-profit organizations. Working there, I learned that a certain brand of citizen assumes that any information gathered about their life would be recorded and entered into a national database accessed by the liberals, and they have no problem shouting at you to make sure you know that they're onto you. While doing a survey designed by the admissions department of the school, I also learned that one gentleman thought that my school was populated by lesbian witches. He knew it was true because he saw a sign for a lesbian witch meeting on a bulletin board during his one visit there. As much as I wanted to find out where and when those meetings were (my hermaphrodite drug-user meetings were getting a little dull), I couldn’t ask him because I had to keep to a carefully worded script.

I still enjoy giving and receiving calls from friends and family, but I think the job conditioned me to associate most phone calls with hostility and anxiety. Which makes it especially painful that I am basically tied to the phone at the moment. I applied for a job in CollegeTown, and got an initial interview. It was a panel interview over the phone. Combine their speakerphone with my crappy cell phone reception (we don't have a landline here, a mistake I don't intend to duplicate), and you get a recipe for frustration. I am waiting to hear if they heard and/or liked enough of my answers to grant me a second interview. I am also constantly waiting for a call from the real estate office requesting a showing. So my cell phone is usually in my pocket, and I find myself visiting it if I leave it alone in a room for too long. And that, perhaps even more than the fact that I want to be able to afford to buy food once we've moved, is making me really wish we could sell this place and that someone will just hire me already.